Stagnation Sucks

Hey Angel-ina, Want to Know How to Get Unstuck and Reinvent Yourself at Any Age?

If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of how to move forward—you’re most certainly not alone. Many women, especially those of us navigating the complex journey of life between 30 and 60, find themselves at a crossroads. And it's a normal feeling, and that "stuckness"  is more often than not,  the signal that you’re ready for reinvention. (exciting, isn't it?)

As someone who has spent 25+ years in fashion, business, and self-development, I’ve walked through my own personal transformations and guided many others to do the same. Reinvention is not just possible; it’s absolutely necessary for growth at any age.

Some of us seek it out, and others of us are thrown into it by life's circumstances, kind of like a mother calling the shots and setting up the school of life for you.   It doesn't matter how you get there, the great news is that you have arrived.

In fact, reinvention is a pretty slick key to unlocking your next level of success and happiness.

The Power of a Well-Made List

The Right Way to Make Lists—And How They Can Change Your Life.

Some people live by their lists. Others (like me) have spent years avoiding them. I always felt like lists never ended, just a constant scroll of unfinished tasks weighing on my mind. They felt rigid, stressful, and, if I’m being honest, a little discouraging.

But then I learned something powerful: Lists aren’t the problem.
The way we use them is.

When I was younger, some friends encouraged me to make a "pros and cons" list about someone I was dating. It seemed like a fun, logical way to clarify my feelings. Until he found it. What once seemed like small, trivial notes suddenly looked like a harsh judgment. That list—so unnecessary, so destructive—changed everything.

The relationship ended soon after, and an aversion to lists started.   But not immediately, my list making evolved into the absurd.   My lists became " novel-esque",  a never ending, and never attainable finish line in sight.  

It caused me great stress, and became a reason for me to say "no" to life's pleasures and invitations.   I eventually burned out, and took a break from the nasty habit.